Getting true buy-in isn’t easy. In his book, “Buy-In”, Harvard Business School Professor John Kotter writes that one significant factor hindering the success to get buy-in is the process we use to secure it.
He writes: “It is inherently flawed. In fact, we don’t approach it as buying at all – but about selling in. I call it ‘describe and defend.’ We develop an idea, sell it to ourselves first, and then go about selling it to others. We consider every objection and develop an air-tight defence for each one. The problem is that we need others to be open to our influence. When they feel sold to, they are more likely to resist or ignore our entreaties. We may get compliance, but we won’t get the kind of buy-in that motivates others to deeply support our ideas.”
As a public relations professional I can testify that this is no easy task. It is easy to describe and defend, but creating stories that exert and attract influence is a lot harder – especially since it also holds the organisation to a higher standard. However, once you get it right, you create emotional connections with stakeholders that create ambassadors for life.
Rand Fishkin, the CEO & Co-Founder of SEOmoz once said that the best way to sell something is to not sell anything.
Instead of resorting to describing and defending you should rather focus on earning the awareness of your target group, respecting the people you deal with, and winning the trust of those who might buy. Fishkin noted that this will result in people developing a desire to buy-in to whatever you are selling.
So, next time you want to get buy-in, don’t sell too hard. In fact, don't sell at all. Consider utilising Public Relations as your secret weapon to curate stories that focus on building trust, gaining respect and raising awareness - before you know it you will have the buy-in you require and the reputation that precede you is sure to be followed by sales.
Ané Bresler is the Head of Investor Relations at Decusatio where she specialises in media and communication solutions.